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He Cannot Be Patient When His Wife Has Her Period: Sex By Phone, Use Of The Hand i.e. Masturbation

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His wife has a long period of menstruation up to seven days before she does ghusl. But he feels this time is too long to wait as his sexual appetite is so high. What must he do or what must she do to solve the problem?

Praise be to Allaah.

We have already explained in question no. 36722 that a man may be intimate with his wife in all ways apart from intercourse, because when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was asked about intimacy with a menstruating woman, he said, "Do everything except intercourse." (Narrated by Muslim, 302)

The husband also has another permissible means of fulfilling his desire, which is mas-turbation by his wife's hand. The evidence for that is the general meaning of the verse (in-terpretation of the meaning): "And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or the (women slaves) whom their right hands possess ? for (then) they are not blameworthy." (Al-Ma'aarij: 29-30) See also question No. 826

And Allaah knows best.

Sexual Talk between Spouses By Phone: Use Of The Hand i.e. Masturbation - Fatwa By Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saleh Al-Uthaimeen

Translation Revision by: Abu Adham Osama Omara

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Is it allowed for a married couple to speak through the telephone about sex and to excite each other so much that one of them or both get an orgasm (without their hands, because that is not allowed). This happens because the man is living abroad for work and they see each other only once every four month and they miss each other very much.

Praise be to Allaah.

We put this question to Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen who answered as follows:
"There is nothing wrong with that. Yes, it is permissible."

Question:

Even if there is use of the hand?

Answer:

"There are some reservations about use of the hand (i.e. masturbation). It is not permissible unless one fears that one may commit zina otherwise."

Question:

So as long as there is no use of the hand, it is OK?

Answer:

"Yes, as long as there is no use of the hand, it is OK. He can imagine that he is with her and there is nothing wrong with that."

They should also make sure that no one is listening to what they say or is spying on them. And Allaah knows best.

 

 

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