This Ramadan, I Will...
A very important set of questions comes to my mind every time I hear the
hadith of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) in which he said:
''The month of Ramadan has come to you, a blessed month …'' (An-Nasa'i, 2106)
Were the several months of Ramadan I went through in my life blessed months?
What kind of blessings did they bring to my life and how did they do so?''
More Important Questions
The more important and more relevant question is:
How can I make this upcoming month of Ramadan a blessed month for me and for
those around me?
I know that the Prophet said that God sets some people free from the hellfire
in every single night in Ramadan. Was I set free at any of these numerous
nights I went through in the past Ramadans?
Am I going to be chosen to be set free in one of the nights of this upcoming
Ramadan? I know that there is a night in the last ten days called the night of
Power (Laylat Al-Qadr) that is better than a thousand months.
Again, I ask myself, ''Did I ever worship God in this night and gain the
tremendous reward mentioned by God and his Messenger?''
Trying to answer these questions, I realized that God does not choose people
randomly for these blessings. I am sure He does not set people free based on
their gender, race, or wealth. I am of the belief that the great night of Al-Qadr
is a gift God gives to some people who show some effort during the month and
probably throughout the year. The most important question is how can I make
myself subject to all these blessings?
How can I make this upcoming Ramadan a real change in my life?
In the article, I am sharing with you my personal plan in getting the maximum
out of this upcoming Ramadan for it may be the last Ramadan I ever experience.
What If I Do not Plan?
You may ask: ''What if I don't plan for this month?'' The answer lies in the
following few lines.
One should understand that the month of Ramadan is a month of preparation for
the whole year. It is a strong boost to our level of faith that will help us
move throughout the rest of the year. Missing Ramadan one year is as if we
missed preparation for this whole year. Missing many Ramadans is as if we
missed a portion of our life. Missing Ramadan throughout our life is as if we
missed our whole life.
The Prophet was once climbing his three-step minbar (the place he used to
stand on to give speech) where he said Amen each time he climbed a step. When
asked by his companions about why he said so, he mentioned that Gabriel came
to him and made three supplications and asked him to say Amen, confirming and
joining him in these supplications. One of these three supplications was:
''May Allah humiliate he who reaches Ramadan and did not get his sins
forgiven.'' (Authenticated by Al Albani)
What is So Special about Ramadan?
In the month of Ramadan, one can make all sorts of acts of worship and
obedience to God. Fasting is a very beloved deed to God and a sign of sincere
intention. The nights of Ramadan are full of mercy and blessings for those who
live them. Ramadan is the month of the Quran where extra attention should be
paid to the Quran.
The Prophet used to be more charitable in the month of Ramadan than any other
times. It is a real opportunity that we have to utilize and I ask God to help
us. If all of us do the same and try to get the best out of this month, we as
a community of believers will show our obedience to God for He may bestow His
mercy upon us, our families, our society, and the whole world.
This Ramadan, I will …
Before the Month Starts
- I will count my time by minutes, not hours or days for the time in Ramadan
is so valuable.
- I will make sure I go over this plan enough before Ramadan and have the
strong determination to implement it.
- I will keep thinking of Ramadan from now. I will long for it and will keep
asking God to enable me to reach it, ''O Allah, allow me to live until
Ramadan. O Allah, grant me in it fasting and Salah and accept them from me.''
- I will give charity before Ramadan as Anas ibn Malik reported. He said that
the companions of the Prophet used to do that to help the poor enter the month
of Ramadan being ready.
- I will start paying extra attention to the Quran before Ramadan starts to
ramp up to something better in Ramadan. I am very encouraged to do so knowing
that this was the attitude of the companions during Sha'ban as Anas reported.
- I will look for some educational material to share with my non-Muslim
friends if they need to know more about Ramadan, and I will make them
available with me all the time.
On the First Night of Ramadan
- I will reflect on the hadith in which the Prophet said about this particular
night. He said,
''When the first night of Ramadan comes, the gates of heavens are open and not
a single gate is closed, and the gates of the hell are closed not a single
gate is open. The devils are chained. A caller will call, 'O you who want to
do good, come forth; O you who want to do evil stop.' And Allah sets people
free from hell every single night.'' (Al-Bukhari, 1899)
- I will make the supplication which the Prophet used to make,
''O Allah, start this month with good and Iman, safety and Islam,'' I will
then address the crescent and say, ''Your lord and my lord is Allah.'' (At-Tirmidhi,
- I will send emails to all my friends congratulating them with the blessed
month. I will ask them to remember me in their duaa while worshipping God in
these beautiful moments. I will post the congratulation on my Facebook, my
blog and my google talk picture. I will change my status to, ''blessed with
the blessed month, in a dire need of God's mercy.'' This will help reminding
everyone with the moment.
- I will use the moment to repent to God expecting his great forgiveness to
cover me in these remarkable moments. I will make a strong determination to
quit all my sins and come out of Ramadan a different man.
- I will not forget to pray Taraweeh at the night before the first day of
fasting and is almost forgotten by many people.
- I will not get into long disputes about the method of deciding the beginning
of Ramadan and I will follow my local community if they adopt any of the
legitimate scholars' opinions in their decision. I will explain briefly to
those who waste their time in this dispute that it is better to spend our time
worshipping God rather than disputing about something which God will not hold
us accountable for. I will try to foster unity in my community and between
local communities as much as I can.
- I will make a list of my friends and colleagues who may not know much about
the blessings of Ramadan and try to make a plan of how to get them closer to
God in this blessed opportunity.
Every Single Day
Before Fajr (Dawn) Prayer
- I will start my day a while before fajr. The time before fajr is so
valuable. The Prophet said that God descends to the lowest heaven in the last
third of the night calling upon his creation, ''Is there anyone who wants to
ask for something so I give him? Is there anyone seeking forgiveness so I
forgive him? Is there anyone who wants to repent so I accept his repentance?''
(Al-Bukhari) Allah praised high quality believers by the practice of ''asking
forgiveness during this time.''
- I will make sure I have suhur- the meal before fajr. The Prophet said:
''Have suhur for there is a blessing in suhur.'' (Al-Bukhari, 1923)
- I will take 10-15 minutes before fajr prayer sitting alone asking God for
forgiveness and calling upon Him in response to His call. The Prophet said
when asked about which part of the night is better in accepting duaa, ''The
last part of the night.'' I will also make a short night prayer during which I
will prostrate and get even closer to Allah as the Messenger said, ''The
closest the servant of Allah will be is when he is in the state of
prostration.'' I will glorify God in my sujud (prostration) and call upon Him.
I will seek His guidance, help, and support in this beautiful time.
- I will try my best to make Subh prayer (This is the name used for the
morning prayer. Fajr prayer is often used to mean the two optional rak'as
before Subh prayer) in the mosque. I will go to the closest mosque to my house
even if it is a little far. I will consider my steps an elevation in my
degrees and an expiation of my sins as the Prophet promised. I will feel the
happiness and the gratitude of praying in congregation during fajr time, an
act which makes me pure of hypocrisy as the prophet mentioned.
- I will remember to make the optional fajr prayer which is 2 rak'as for the
''The two rak'as of fajr are better than this life and what is in it.''
- If I reach the masjid before Iqamah time, I will sit and make duaa. The
''Duaa between Adhan and Iqamah is not rejected.'' (Abu Dawud, 521)
- I will make sure I remember God after Prayer for the Prophet said, ''Whoever
says Subhana Allah 33 times, Alhamdu Lellah 33 times, Allahu Akbar 33 times,
and then completed the 100 by saying ''La Ilaha Illah Allah, Wahdahu La
sharika lah lahu alMulk walau Al-Hamd wa howa 'ala koli shai' qadir,'' his
sins will be wiped out even if they are like the foam of the sea.''
- I will remember to say ''Ayat al-Kursi (verse 2: 255)'' for the Prophet said
if you say it after prayer there is nothing between you and Paradise except
- I will try, especially during weekends, to stay after fajr in the mosque
remembering God, reciting some Quran until 15 minutes after sunrise. I will
then make a 2,4,6, or 8 raka'as . I will feel the reward of a complete Hajj
and Umrah as the Prophet promised.
- I will try to sleep a little before going to work.
- I will go to work and will do my best to excel in my job. I will try to
remove the misconception that Ramadan is a month of laziness. I will consider
my job an act of worship, simultaneously worshipping God by fasting and
- I will get a few minutes in the office where I will relax and try to close
my eyes in a half-sleeping mode for that gives me energy as if I really slept
for some time. I will need it to resume my day and to relax in preparation for
a long night.
- I will try my best to make Dhuhr and Asr prayers on time and I will make
them in congregation during the weekends.
- I will make my Iftar most of the time in the mosque as my community always
does. When it is our turn to prepare Iftar, I will take the intention for
giving Iftar to all those who are fasting for there is an immense reward in
it. The Prophet said:
''Whoever gives Iftar to a fasting person, will get a similar reward.'' (At-Tirmidhi,
- I will try to go a few minutes before Maghreb so I can spend sometime in the
mosque remembering God and making du'a.
- I will break my fasting feeling the happiness the Prophet mentioned. The
happiness of someone who was allowed to complete his day of fasting and was
given the opportunity to eat. I will recall the other part of the happiness
the Prophet mentioned when I meet God with this day of fasting. These are the
two pieces of happiness the Prophet mentioned in his hadith:
''The one who fasts has two happiness: one when he breaks his fast and the
other when he meets his Lord.'' (Al-Bukhari, 7492)
- I will remember to make du'aa at this very moment of breaking my fasting for
this is a time the duaa is accepted as the Prophet mentioned. I will remember
my family, my parents, my brothers and sisters, and all Muslims during my duaa.
- I will not eat a lot to prepare myself for taraweeh prayer and I will make
sure I eat healthy food.
- I will take a short relaxation before taraweeh prayer.
- I will try my best to make taraweeh in the mosque, every day and I will feel
the blessing of praying with the whole Quran during the whole month.
- I will go to sleep after taraweeh and will make a strong intention that my
sleep is an act of worship preparing myself for a new day of comprehensive
Last Ten Days
- I will try to take a couple of days off from work so I can put more effort
in the last 10 days
- I will make I'tikaf, if not the whole 10 days, as much as I can especially
during the weekends. During my I'tikaf, I will increase the night prayer and
the amount of Quran I recite. (I'tikaf is an act of worship where one spends
time in the Masjid praying, reading Quran and remembering God. The Prophet
used to do that in the last 10 days of Ramadan. However, it can be done at any
- I will try to invite my family and friends to I'tikaf since it is really a
nice time and a very blessed one.
- I will try my best in the last ten days to reach the night of Al-Qadr. I
will keep doing my best for the whole 10 nights and I will never stop after
- In the last few moments before Ramadan is over, I will reflect on my heart.
I will feel the happiness of completing a whole month of comprehensive
worship. I will feel the happiness of Eid coming tomorrow. I will also feel
the sadness that this great opportunity is about to end and will not come
again except in a year or may not come again ever.
- I will have the hope that God accepted from me and forgave my sins. I will
feel the hope that I am set free from the hell. I am going to feel the fear
that I may not be forgiven or my deeds are not accepted.
- I will get prepared for the Eid and prepare my family for it. I will do my
best to make the day of Eid a day of great happiness and joy to my family and
my community. I will help in organizing the Eid prayer in my community.
- I will remember to pay Zakat Al-Fitr before Eid prayer for it is an
obligation upon every member of the household and it helps our brothers and
sisters enjoy their Eid without having to ask for charity.
- I will never forget my family from all this work. I will involve them in all
that I do and will encourage them to join the reward.
- I will be as charitable as I can even if I donate a little, for the Prophet
was extra-charitable in the days of Ramadan.
- I will join my community in organizing charitable campaigns to feed the
hungry and give charity to the poor. I will promote these projects and
- I will join my community in organizing open houses during Ramadan, for
people are so curious to visit the Islamic centers and meet Muslims during
- I will respond to the invitation of schools to come and share some thoughts
and presentations about the month of Ramadan with Muslim and non-Muslim
students. I will offer my presentation even if not requested.
A Token of Sincerity
- I will do something I did not share with you and will not share with anyone
that only God knows about as a token of pure intention and sincere worship.
I ask Allah to help and I ask you to have a similar plan.
''O Allah, make us reach Ramadan!''
Source: MAS Tarbiya - http://www.mastarbiya.org