Marrying With The Intention Of Getting Divorced Is Haraam
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What is the ruling on marrying with the
intention of getting divorced? A man may be travelling
and he gets married, but his intention is to divorce
her when he wants to go back to his own country.
Praise be to Allaah.
Some scholars said that a marriage done with the
intention of getting divorced is an invalid marriage,
because it is temporary, so it is akin to mut'ah
marriage.
Among those who are of this opinion are the scholars
of the Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas. We have
quoted their fatwa in the answer to question no.
91962.
Others are of the view that it is a valid marriage,
but it is haraam due to the deceit and betrayal
involved, because if the woman and her guardian knew
that the husband was only getting married with the
intention of divorce after a few days or a month and
so on, they would not have agreed to that.
Among those who are of this opinion is Shaykh Muhammad
ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him). He was
asked:
There is a man who wants to go abroad because he is
being sponsored by the government, and he wants to
maintain his chastity by marrying a woman there for a
specific period, then after that he will divorce this
wife, without telling her that he is going to divorce
her. What is the ruling on his doing this?
He replied:
One of two scenarios must apply to this marriage that
is done with the intention of divorce. Either he
stipulates in the marriage contract that he is
marrying her for a month or a year or until his
studies end, which is a mut'ah marriage and is haraam,
or he is intending that without stipulating it. The
well known Hanbali view is that it is haraam and the
marriage contract is invalid, because they say that
that which is intended is like that which is
stipulated, because the Prophet (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him) said: "Actions are but by
intentions and each person will have but that which he
intended." And because if a man marries a woman who
was divorced thrice by her husband for the purpose of
making her permissible for him, then he divorces her,
then the marriage is invalid, even if that is done
without any stipulation, because that which is
intended is like that which is stipulated. If the
intention is tahleel (making it permissible for the
woman to go back to her first husband) then the
contract is invalid. Similarly the intention of mut'ah
renders the marriage contract invalid. This is the
view of the Hanbalis. The other scholarly view
concerning this issue is that it is valid to marry the
woman with the intention of divorcing her when he
leaves the country, like those who go abroad to study
and so on. They said: Because this is not stipulated,
and the difference between this and mut'ah is that
when the time stipulated comes, separation is
automatic, unlike this, because he may like this wife
and want her to stay with him. This is one of the two
views of Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah.
In my view, it is valid and is not mut'ah, because the
definition of mut'ah does not apply to it. But it is
haraam because it is deceiving the wife and her
family, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah
be upon him) forbade deceiving and cheating. If the
wife knew that this man only wanted to marry her for
this period, she would not have married him and her
family would not have agreed. Just as he would not
want to give his daughter in marriage to a person who
intends to divorce her when he no longer has any need
of her, how can he agree to treat others in a way that
he would not like for himself? This is contrary to
faith, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said: "No one of you is a believer
until he likes for his brother what he likes for
himself." And because I have heard that some people
use this opinion as a means to do something which no
scholar would approve: they go to other countries just
to get married, so they go and get married, and they
stay there for as long as Allaah wills with this wife
whom they intended to marry for a short time only,
then come back. This is also a grave wrong and closing
the door to it would have been better because of the
deceit and betrayal involved in it, and because it
opens the door to such things, as most people are
ignorant and most people's whims and desires encourage
them to transgress the sacred limits of Allaah. End
quote.
Fataawa al-Mar'ah al-Muslimah (2/757, 758).
It says in the resolutions of the Fiqh Council:
Marrying with the intention of divorce means: a
marriage in which the conditions of marriage are
fulfilled, but the husband intends in his heart to
divorce the woman after a certain length of time, such
as ten days, or an unknown length of time, such as
when the husband has completed his studies or when he
achieves the purpose for which he came.
Although some scholars permitted this type of
marriage, the Council thinks that it is not
permissible, because it includes deceit and cheating,
because if the woman or her guardian knew about that,
they would not have agreed to this marriage contract.
And because it leads to serious negative consequences
and real harm which damages the reputation of the
Muslims.
And Allaah is the Source of strength. May Allaah send
blessings and peace upon our Prophet Muhammad and his
family and companions. End quote.
http://www.themwl.org/Fatwa/default.aspx?d=1&cidi=162&l=AR&cid=13
Whatever the case, marrying with the intention of
getting divorced is haraam, and it may be either
invalid in and of itself like mut'ah, or haraam
because of the deceit and betrayal involved.
And Allaah knows best.
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