He Wants To Become Muslim In Order To
Marry A Muslim Woman
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I was told that if a person was to become a
Muslim, to get married to a muslim girl for example,
even if not truly out of faith, then it is still
accepted by God. Since this way one more person is
becoming a Muslim, and especially that his children
would be Muslims instead of Christians for example. So
what do u say about that?
Praise be to Allaah.
The basis of faith is in the hearts, and so the
intention plays a major role in Islamic sharee'ah.
This is indicated in the hadeeth which the scholars
regard as half of the religion of Islam, and with
which many scholars begin their books, such as al-Bukhaari
(may Allaah have mercy on him) in his Saheeh. He
narrated that ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab said: "I heard the
Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) say: "Actions are but by intention and each
person will have but that which he intended. So
whoever migrated for some worldly purpose or for the
sake of a woman whom he could marry, his migration was
for the purpose that he intended." (al-Bukhaari, 1).
According to the version narrated by Muslim, "So
whoever migrated for the sake of Allaah and His
Messenger, his migration was for the sake of Allaah
and His Messenger, and whoever migrated for some
worldly purpose or for the sake of a woman whom he
could marry, his migration was for the purpose that he
intended." (Muslim, 2530). Based on the above, this
matter may be examined from two angles:
The first has to do with the acceptance of this
person's Islam by Allaah. The hadeeth indicates that
it will not be accepted if this (marrying a woman) is
the only intention that he has and faith has not
entered his heart.
The second has to do with applying the rulings of
Islam to him. If this person utters the Shahaadatayn
and follows the teachings of Islam, and does not do
anything that would nullify his Islam, then he should
be treated like any other Muslim, and his marriage to
this Muslim woman may be accepted. That is because we
are commanded by sharee'ah to deal with people
according to how they appear to be; we are not
commanded to enquire into what is in their hearts. It
says in the hadeeth of Abu Sa'eed al-Khudri that the
Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) said: I was not commanded to enquire into
what is in people's hearts or to find out their
secrets." (al-Bukhaari, 4004; Muslim, 1763).
Perhaps if this person enters Islam, even if it is
with this intention, he will look at the perfection of
Islam and be encouraged to form a sincere intention,
so he will become sincere towards Allaah and become a
good Muslim, and Allaah will accept his Islam. Those
who are in touch with this person can advise him to
make sure that his intention is primarily to seek the
pleasure of Allaah and to enter into Islam truly, and
his marriage will then be a consequence or a means of
his entering into the blessing of Islam, and not an
aim in and of itself. This girl could make marriage to
her a means of encouraging him to become Muslim, as
happened in the case of Umm Sulaym (may Allaah be
pleased with her) and her marriage to Abu Talhah (may
Allaah be pleased with him). It was narrated that Anas
said: "Abu Talhah married Umm Sulaym, and the dowry
between them was Islam. Umm Sulaym had become Muslim
before Abu Talhah. He proposed marriage to her and she
said, ‘I have become Muslim; if you become Muslim I
will marry you.' So he became Muslim and that was the
dowry between them." (al-Nasaa'i, 3288; classed as
saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan al-Nasaa'i,
3133).
With regard to the reason for accepting him – as
mentioned in the question – being to increase the
number of Muslims, this is not correct, because
increasing the number of Muslims, even though this is
something good and desirable, is not a reason for
accepting anyone who claims to be a Muslim but does
not really believe in Islam, because Islam is
concerned with quality as well as quantity, it is not
concerned only with quantity. One person who sincerely
believes in the religion is better than a thousand who
are lying about it.