Eesa Ashby's acceptance of Islam at
a young age, what drew him to Islam, and also his
experiences as a new Muslim
By Selma Cook
Eesa was only
thirteen years old when he became a Muslim. Before
Islam, when he was still a ten-year-old child he had a
normal life of going to school and hanging out with
his friends.
Then in
secondary school his cousin, who was fifteen years old
at the time, embraced Islam and she used to come
around to the house and tell his family about Islam.
The family members all had different opinions and
there were many debates but he was quiet and simply
listened.
One day when he
was at home she called and asked him to come to her
house which was about a 15 minutes walk away. This
was his aunt's house. His cousin showed him the Quran
and asked him if he knew what it was, at which he said
he didn't. She explained that as the Christians have
the Bible, the Muslims have the Qur'an.
He admitted that
he did not know anything about Islam or Muslims. He
only knew what his mother had taught him about
Christianity. His cousin spoke to him about Almighty
Allah and Prophet Muhammad saying that he was the
Messenger from Allah and that he had brought the Quran
from Almighty Allah. She clarified that Muhammad, may
the mercy and blessings of God be upon him, did not
write it; rather it was a revelation revealed to him.
It was the
scientific miracles in the Quran that caught his
attention. What stood out for him, were the facts
and figures mentioned in the Quran. It was simply
amazing to read the details mentioned in the Quran
about the formation of the baby in the mother's womb,
the stars, the oceans and how science today
acknowledges all these facts. He was blown away by
this; he didn't know that there were people long ago
who accurately talked about the stars and so on.
Praying five
times a day, following the dietary code, and the dress
code wasn't difficult. After his cousin explained the
basics of Islam, he started reading about prayers and
the dress code and he decided that he would
concentrate on one thing at a time.
He began his
journey into Islam by starting with the most important
thing, the prayers. He had basic books with Arabic
transliterations and diagrams of stick figures. Since
then, a lot more material has become available to help
new Muslims.
At first, he did
not tell anyone he had become a Muslim because he felt
he was not ready to face the comments and criticism.
Even at this point, he did not know exactly what Islam
meant.
As the years
passed and he travelled from country to country, he
was fortunate to have studied in Egypt and Yemen where
he learnt about the vastness and mercy of Islam. But
back then, he thought he would keep his conversion
secret and to himself for a while. He did not know
anyone else who was Muslim except his cousin. He got
books on monotheism from the local Islamic book shop
and books on prayer, fasting, the life of the Prophet
and the Companions as well as the four rightly-guided
Caliphs.
After three or
four months he attended a talk at the house of
Abdur-Raheem Green in South London. He
The talks were in the
front room of the house and everyone was sitting
cramped up but listened attentively and It was
there that he learnt many of the basics of Islam.
Growing up a
Muslim got Eesa through school and college without
getting into any trouble! He noted that it is very
easy to get involved in the wrong crowd but all he
could think of when he was young was if he had
performed ablution to be ready for prayer or when the
next prayer was due. Such concerns filled his mind
while everyone else at school or in his neighborhood
were talking about a rave or other insignificant
things.
When he turned
fifteen, he decided to speak to others about his
conversion to Islam. He had a friend who also became
a Muslim and the two of them were in their own little
world. They hung around together and even went to the
Mosque together. They often got into trouble for
leaving the school in order to attend the Friday
Prayer.
Despite his
young age, Eesa did not think Islam was strict; he
found that it just made sense. He understood why
alcohol was prohibited. It made sense to him that
people should not drink because he could see all the
harm that came from it.
Some may believe
that becoming a Muslim at such a young age would
indefinitely isolate a person from non-Muslims, but
with Eesa this was not the case, he interacted and
functioned normally, but there was always a line he
would not cross. He would not join classmates and in
when they would want to engage in something that went
against his beliefs and in wrong activities such as
raves and what not. When his non-Muslim class-mates
invited him to such events he would give a number of
excuses and not attend.
Finally here are
a few words from brother Eesa:
"I suggest that
new Muslims should do some research on the lives of
the Companions and see how they put Islam into
practice. The Companions received Islam from the
hands of the Prophet. You can find real information on
Islam but you have to search and you should not be
lazy. The best place to get knowledge and be sure it
is the right knowledge, is to read the Quran and then
look to the Hadith, especially Bukhari and Muslim."