It was narrated from 'Abdullah bin Yahya, one of the sons of Ka'b bin Malik,
from his grandfather, that :
his grandmother Khairah, the wife of Ka'b bin Malik, came to the Messenger of
Allah (ﷺ) with some jewelry belonging to her and said, I am giving this in
charity. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said to her: “It is not permissible for a
woman to dispose of her wealth without her husband's permission. Did you ask
Ka'b's permission?” She said: “Yes.” So the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) sent for Ka'b
bin Malik, her husband, and said, “Did you give Khairah permission to give her
jewelry in charity?” He said: “Yes.” So the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) accepted it
from her.
حَدَّثَنَا حَرْمَلَةُ بْنُ يَحْيَى، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ وَهْبٍ،
أَخْبَرَنِي اللَّيْثُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ يَحْيَى، - رَجُلٌ
مِنْ وَلَدِ كَعْبِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ - عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ، أَنَّ جَدَّتَهُ،
خَيْرَةَ - امْرَأَةَ كَعْبِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ - أَتَتْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه
وسلم بِحُلِيٍّ لَهَا فَقَالَتْ إِنِّي تَصَدَّقْتُ بِهَذَا فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ
اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " لاَ يَجُوزُ لِلْمَرْأَةِ فِي مَالِهَا إِلاَّ
بِإِذْنِ زَوْجِهَا فَهَلِ اسْتَأْذَنْتِ كَعْبًا " . قَالَتْ نَعَمْ .
فَبَعَثَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم إِلَى كَعْبِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ زَوْجِهَا
فَقَالَ " هَلْ أَذِنْتَ لِخَيْرَةَ أَنْ تَتَصَدَّقَ بِحُلِيِّهَا " .
فَقَالَ نَعَمْ . فَقَبِلَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم مِنْهَا .